Category: Blog
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Thoughts: Embracing your true self
Hello everyone! I know it’s been a hot minute since I’ve posted anything on here. I have learned this year to just allow my focus to go where it wants with my creative endeavors as I always seem to circle back around eventually. Creatively I have been focusing on hand sewing lately. This takes up […]
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Thoughts: Having hard conversations with your romantic partner
I had mentioned in my Sexuality series about how important having the hard conversations with your romantic partner is, in order to stay connected and keep moving towards each other in your relationship instead of drifting apart. There is no wrong or right way to do this but I want to give you a few […]
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Thoughts: Part eight- Evolution of my sexuality
Where we left off: I finally gave Devon my blessing and support to further his transition with testosterone and use of he/him pronouns, we bought our first house but there were still some deep wounds between Devon and myself caused by our fights when I started dating cis-men again. It’s been a slow and tender […]
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Thoughts: Part seven- Evolution of my sexuality
Where we left off: I found a local cis-guy whom I had incredible chemistry with but Devon and my relationship wasn’t as steady as we would have liked. I was still not considering myself bisexual as I was so specific with the energy I was looking for within a cis-guy and felt way more open […]
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Thoughts: Part six- Evolution of my sexuality
Where we left off: Devon and I had just moved to Portland, OR in April 2015. I had to say goodbye to my high school sweetheart, whom I was still enjoying an intimate relationship with. Devon and I were legally married at this point and I was still calling him my wife. Once settled in […]
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Thoughts: Part five- Evolution of my sexuality
Where we left off: Devon and I almost broke up after he had been on testosterone for a year while trying to figure out where he felt comfortable on the gender identity/expression spectrum. I was honest with myself and him that his personality and physical changes were too drastic for me to stay in a […]
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Thoughts: Part four- Evolution of my sexuality
We left off with me moving in with Devon only a few months after starting to date and us exploring ethical non-monogamy… Devon was the first person I had ever dated who I felt completely seen by and that I felt accepted me for who I was. By the time I had met him, I […]
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Thoughts: Part three- Evolution of my sexuality
Where we left off: me identifying as a lesbian despite still having sexual chemistry with my cis-male high school sweetheart. I had an incredible experience dating women and found myself embodying different energies depending on the level of femme to masculine she was. It was so fascinating to me and so much fun. Despite the […]
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Thoughts: Part two: Evolution of my sexuality
Picking up from where we left off…my first conscious same sex crush on a luminous girl from Burma that would never come to anything. As I mentioned, I was dating a guy at the time of this self discovery who was supportive of my exploration and as we discussed the possibility of marriage, he said […]
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Thoughts: The evolution of my sexuality- Part one
Even though I have been mostly open and out about my sexuality since my early 20s, it is still something I haven’t gone into depth about on the internet yet. But, as I have benefited so many times from incredible people being vulnerable about their experiences and processes on Youtube or other forms of social […]
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